Cook/Housekeeper & Confidante

Cook/Housekeeper & Confidante

We are an engaging couple residing in an artfully designed home filled with stories waiting to be told. Our dynamic is one of shared power, vulnerability, and growth, inspired by my wife's renowned memoir reminiscent of Mary Gaitskill's raw and provocative style. As we continue to explore our intertwined lives through art and literature, we invite you to join us as our dedicated Cook/Housekeeper & Confidante on either a live-in or live-out basis.

We welcome applicants from diverse backgrounds, including those who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community. Our home is an inclusive sanctuary where everyone feels valued, respected, and safe.

About Us

Our home is an intimate sanctuary where art, literature, and personal growth intersect. We value open communication, mutual trust, and harmonious living built upon respect and understanding. Our relationship is one of shared exploration, with both parties actively contributing to creating a safe haven for connection, self-discovery, and mutual growth.

Role & Responsibilities

As our Cook/Housekeeper & Confidante, you will play an essential role in maintaining the smooth operation of our household while fostering an atmosphere of trust, intimacy, and inclusivity. Your responsibilities include:

Meal Preparation (40% of time):
Prepare simple, wholesome meals tailored to our preferences using fresh, nutritious ingredients.
Demonstrate basic cooking skills under supervision, maintaining a clean work environment before, during, and after meal preparation.
Maintain a tidy kitchen by clearing dishes, washing surfaces, and restocking ingredients promptly.

Grocery Shopping & Pantry Management (20% of time):
Manage grocery lists mindfully, selecting fresh and high-quality ingredients that align with our nutritional preferences.
Shop for groceries thoughtfully, ensuring items are fresh and within expiration dates. We can provide transportation with clear instructions if needed.

Housekeeping & Organization (20% of time):
Perform daily housekeeping tasks such as tidying up, dusting, laundry (when needed), and maintaining a clutter-free space under guidance.

Confidentiality & Active Listening (20% of time):
Foster an atmosphere of trust and confidentiality by actively listening to our shared experiences and insights without judgment or expectations.
Contribute thoughtfully to conversations about art, literature, personal growth, and inclusivity, demonstrating curiosity, empathy, and intelligence.

Qualities We Appreciate

We are seeking someone who embodies:

A nurturing spirit with a genuine desire to care for others' well-being
Genuine curiosity about others' lives and experiences, coupled with exceptional listening skills
A deep appreciation for art, literature, personal transformation, and inclusivity, ideally with some knowledge of Mary Gaitskill's work
Reliability, punctuality, consistency, and discretion in maintaining routines, tasks, confidences, and a safe space for all
Strong communication skills and an active approach to building trust, connection, and inclusive relationships

Adaptability, flexibility, problem-solving skills, and a proactive approach to tasks, relationship-building, and creating a welcoming environment

What We Offer

By joining our household as our Cook/Housekeeper & Confidante, you will have the opportunity to:

Be part of an intimate, artfully curated living environment filled with stories waiting to be told
Contribute to our personal growth, meaningful connections, and inclusivity

Enjoy a competitive salary and benefits package tailored to your needs, including room and board if you choose to live in (subject to availability and mutual agreement)

Have access to opportunities for engaging with artists, writers, thought leaders, and diverse communities in our area

How to Apply

If our dynamic resonates with you and you are drawn to the opportunity of contributing to our household as our Cook/Housekeeper & Confidante, please submit your resume, a detailed cover letter explaining why you're interested in this role and how you embody the qualities we appreciate. In the subject line, please include "Cook/Housekeeper & Confidante Application (Your Name)".

We welcome applicants from diverse backgrounds who understand and resonate with the nuances of our dynamic, appreciate the opportunity to contribute thoughtfully to our household, and are eager to foster an inclusive environment.

This is a legitimate employment opportunity with a registered company, and the work is in full compliance with the British Columbia Employment Standards Act.

In an era of AI-driven, mass applications, we are focused on finding genuine candidates who connect with our post. To help us see the real person behind the resume, we ask that you show us you've read this carefully. You can do this by including a personal touch, like a photo or LinkedIn link, and by letting us know if you are familiar with Mary Gaitskill's short story, "The Secretary." Applications that show this extra effort will be prioritized.